“Whose wedding is this?” Well….The message was inspiring enough to make me begin to think this question. It seems Seek doesn’t need a wedding while Ask wants it badly and even decided to leave the leading actor aside. We ladies have already been treated with a Champagne breakfast in the Crown Plaza yesterday morning by the bride-to-be, and I happened to hear she is getting prepared for her wedding nails when she mentioned the wedding to another girl. She did go “my wedding…” blah blah blah! For us, there was nothing wrong with it. We all took it naturally because that’s what a woman does and wants.

In the last episode of Everybody Loves Raymond, I saw how mad Deborah could be. On their 10th anniversary she was yelling, punching his husband, a stupid jerk who overwrote their wedding tape with a football game. “Jesus! You really screwed up”, Ray was told. Women love weddings because they desperately need some moment that they could be totally emotional and play as an actress. That’s why they made up lots of things (including romance) in their life to make that moment happen. By the way, they are very useless at resisting such a moment. However, they would never admit about that. On the contrary, when that moment is happening, they would push you doing the same.

So…. there is some suggestions for those husband-to-bes or Raymondish husbands: First, you gotta to give your woman a wedding if you seriously want to get a woman; Second, always remember that women hope you have 200 IQ in the daily life but only do no more than 80 in a wedding (please practise this from Forest Gump); The last and the most important thing you need to know is, in a wedding which your woman cares much, no your strong personality please! No your humorous please! And no wisdom playing please!! Do what you have been told and do it precisely the same as what you have been told. If you do so, you will have the world in your hand, at least at your home; otherwise, get ready to be fixed by her in the rest days of your life.